Have Some Say About Your Bridal Shower
Wednesday, October 14th, 2009Friends and family enjoy Bridal showers because it is a last chance (along with the bachelorette party) to have time with the Bride while she is still single. The Bride normally has it planned for her and it is not always what she might want it to be.
Sometimes showers have a sense of being unplanned, where anything could happen and people just go along with whatever does. Showers have an unlikely mix of guests, friends as well as family making the Bride feel uncomfortable on occasion when friends offer raunchy gifts for her honeymoon while the Bride’s grandmother and elderly great aunt look on. Without the Bride indicating a few ground rules for the organiser to be guided by things may not run as smoothly as she might like.
But if it is the Maid of Honor organizing the party then the Bride should feel able to give her input. Obviously there should be fun and laughter but it is also an opportunity to help out the Bride in her new life, with finances being tight these days couples may have specific things they need. More families are coming together for events like these and so the Bride should sit with the Maid of Humor, make it clear Grandma is going to be there, and maybe suggest some gift ideas, and give some information the Maid of Honor can pass along to the invitees.